Moving on is a bitch..

Few years back, moving on from a relationship that lasted for 5-6 years nearly had wrecked the soul inside. But 6 months in alcohol and marijuana revealed that not only its imprudent and dumb but of no worth at all. The mind plays puzzles and you are entombed in the vicious circle of doleful games and choked with grief. Relationships work and sometimes they don’t. And when they end, we are not able to measure the life and breaths that awaits us ahead. Well, sure it happens since we are humans. But on the contrary, I would term myself as a realist. I feel pain and there was a time I cried too but then I realized it is all bullshit. Love is a choice, not something written in destiny. First love or last love do not exist. It is about choosing the imperfect person who is perfect for you and spending the rest of your life with that person. Feelings develop and may reach a point where you commit everything to that person. But one should remember that feelings one day may go up and down, one should not lose faith in love or in oneself. You are perfect for someone with all the imperfections. People may change during the course of time, the key is to accept the change. Tolerance is the lever which can help two souls sail together in this sea called life.

It is really hard to move on but every beautiful thing in life is hard. Accepting it and enjoying every moment can help you, really! Mind plays a lot of games but at the end of the day it is yours, right? You need to control the thoughts which is one hell of a task but trust me it will help you. You are awesome. I mean it. We all have an attitude and usually show it off to others. It should be saved for the mind. When life gives you lemons, drink it with a tequila. It is a ghissi pitti (Weird and outdated) line, I know, but also true! So, tell me what is wrong in moving on. Things did not go well, part of life. You really wanna cry about it whole life? Wrong option! Get up and out of that notion. Find a reason to smile and to be happy.

One of my favorite line from Kung Fu Panda 2 is You gotta let go o f that stuff from the past ’cause it just doesn’t matter! The only thing that matters is what you choose to be now.

Past is gone, it will not come back. And to be honest, don’t let it come back on you..

Think about it!!

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Tu bhi to raat ko brush nai karti…

Many times we have been asked; “Dude, what is the first thing you observe about a girl?” or “What is the best thing about her?”

Well, my answer is “TEETH”. I mean beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and beauty is in everything. You may find some1’s eyes beautiful or the smile or the beautiful god made body. But that depends and changes from person to person. What doesn’t change is the TEETH 😛 … If you have bad teeth, YOU have bad teeth. If one finds them bad, every one will. It is the ultimate truth. HAHAHA…

Remember when getting clicked, people used to say “CHEESE”. It started coz many people had bad teeth and in Cheese only smile comes up. This was done so that such people do not get left out of the lot and their pictured will be sad and gloomy. [Just to keep them in the game;)] Common buddy! 😛

So coming back to the point, I observe teeth in a girl first and then I move to other parts. I do not know why but that’s the way it is. Yellow teeth are OK but not much. but never ever ever miss on the warning signs guys and girls.
Symptoms to look out for include:

Gum, tooth, or jaw pain
Bleeding gums
Loose or lost teeth
Recurring bad breath
Sores, irregular patches, or lumps in your mouth

If you find these, pick up your butt and visit the doctor for god’s sake 😛
See, gums that ache or bleed may be the result of gum disease that is getting worse. Gum disease is often more severe in people with underlying conditions such as diabetes, which reduces the body’s resistance to infection or AIDS (I will check with my dentist and get back on that, hold your horses :P).

Your best defenses: brushing, flossing, and using a fluoride rinse. (In one study, twice-daily rinsers had nearly one-third the risk of root cavities as did people who used fluoride toothpaste and a placebo rinse.) But avoid rinses with alcohol.
Common!! Don’t waste that Corona or JD or Budweiser 😛

Think about it…

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Memoirs of a Monk….

It’s really a boring day today, it’s a semi holiday today in office and not many people have turned up so I thought why not express a story of mine in words and share. It’s not a random story, it’s a part of my own biography.

Many times I have woken up 3 AM in the morning when I slept at 1 in wonder that why, why was I born in this world at this point of era. I have been a decent son, a friend who is always there to help his mates, one who can do anything freaky and weird for them in order to make them smile. I do not like dull moments in my life, well, nobody does is what you will say. But, I don’t even like a dull moment in life of people around me. I am not saying I am person who is jolly and keeps laughing, but I am someone who if in a dull moment, helps everyone come out of it. My expertise start when a dull moment start. If the environment is already filled with happiness, I will enjoy with you. If it is boring, sad and dull, call me over and party will begin. The main issue with me is, I want everyone to be happy always.

This happiness may not come easily as people are stuck in desires and dreams. But wake up, whatever you have/ do not have,
at least you have a moment, a soul and a life. Be happy with it. It is said “make the most of it” or have you made it large?”
I would say “have you lived that moment?” Every breath you take has a lot of energy in it. the oxygen you inhale, goes through your nostrils, fills your wind pipe… reaches the lungs, mixes with blood which takes it all over your body which is a a mesh of veins and arteries, a whole thick forest and then burns the food to release energy and this happens every mili-second of your life.

Do understand here that I am not saying to dance every now and then and party. Even when you are sitting idle and quiet feel the happiness in air and let it surround you. Last night I was feeling restless so I took my car out for a drive alone. 50 Km out of the city and I stopped it. Locked my car, took a pee…. LOL… I had a fag and lied down on my car’s bonnet and just looked up. It was an irony that I was smoking and looking at the stars and feeling lively. 🙂 hehe… but to come and think of it. Life starts and ends. While lying there for 45 minutes, I was happy because it was peaceful for me (making exception of trucks and their beloved horns on national highway). I was enjoying every breath and the stars were wonderful.. made me feel, I belong to a separate world, a more happy and peaceful environment lost somewhere in this world.

While driving back home, I realised that I may not be good at the work I am currently doing, I may not be happy with it but I am also not sad about it. It gives me a paycheque at least…lol… but money doesn’t matter. I am very restless and can’t sit idle. Hence, when I am with friends, I make it a point that they enjoy the moment. If I die or go away, they will remember me not because of our meetings and my abusing them for not doing work properly, but by the moments of joy that we had shared and a simple smile which I was able to make happen on their faces.

So, my advice for today is, be a person who not only brings joy to his life but others too.. Coz in the end, we all have to go away, but how about living life after death in somebody’s heart and mind.

Think about it….

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Reason behind a Smile…..

In the morning, at office bus stop I see a number of people ready to face the day and make a new start with a lovely day and a lovely smile. I guess is it real or they just trying to hide certain errs behind that smile. School kids budge around me hanging around waiting for the bus to pick them up and take them to a place where they can play in playground or spend time studying with friends. The teenagers looking out for different buses which will take them to their college, a place where they can be themselves. Office guys talking about their targets and work to finish till EOD.

Then I see a smile of a girl with specs standing 2 girlfriends waiting for the office bus. Her smile seems so real in this fake world. I do not know the name though. The day passes at its normal pace. At workplace, I see a friend who laughs n giggles to every damn joke I make, but sometimes I can see the pain in her eyes. She is suffering from something, taking stress of family, work n friends. She is the most jovial person I have ever met in my life yet she shares the worries with me!

I wonder how she effectively hides all the sadness with a smile and nobody can see the reason behind it except me, I feel. The reason it to kick the sadness in the ass and smile through it like a sail finding its way through the wind in an ocean full of crap people. The smile on her face brings everyone from low level like a guard at the gate to the manager to life.

Everyone seems to smile. Really! It happens every time. She greets everyone passing by and everyone forgets the worries for a moments. I guess that a talent bigger than God. Hiding one’s sadness with a smile to make everyone smile to your tune.

Respect! Its a great thing to learn that how a smile can change one’s self concern from inside.

The reason behind the smile..

Think about it..

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